Lives right in your chats

Every birthday, remembered.

Tell me the little things once. I remind you the day before every birthday and anniversary, then put them in the text, so they reply "wait, you remembered that?"

Pro is 1 month free, then $2.99 a month. Free keeps 10 people with a date.

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Pick Free or Pro

Pro is 1 month free, then $2.99 a month

Free

  • 10 people with a date
  • A reminder before each birthday
  • Gift ideas

Pro

  • Everyone you know
  • Texts that sound like you
  • Syncs by itself
  • Gift ideas

Try it now on WhatsApp

Brings in the birthdays you already keep

WhatsApp
iPhone
Your calendar
Android
Google Contacts
Notes
WhatsApp
iPhone
Your calendar
Android
Google Contacts
Notes
WhatsApp
iPhone
Your calendar
Android
Google Contacts
Notes
WhatsApp
iPhone
Your calendar
Android
Google Contacts
Notes

See it in action

The whole thing lives in one chat.

The day before, I give you a heads up. On the day I ask if you want a draft, and Draft it brings back four, the first ones built from the little things you told me. Pick one, tap Send, and their chat opens with it already typed. I never message your people.

  • A heads up the day before, never after
  • One tap on Draft it, a text that remembers
  • One tap opens their chat already typed, you hit send
Sounds like you

A text that sounds like you wrote it.

Your mom gets the warm one. Your college roommate gets the one with no capitals. I learn how you write to each person, so every draft reads like you on a good day.

  • I learn per person

    Each person gets their own voice, picked up from the way you already message them.

  • Teach me from a real chat

    Share a chat with someone and I learn how you write to them. On Pro, link your account once and I keep learning on my own, opt in and pausable anytime.

  • One little thing, never a list

    Each draft carries one thing you told me, like the dog's name or the trip you keep planning. Never a recap of everything I know.

For Mom
Draft, in your voice

happy birthday mama ❤️🎉 hope the roses came in pink this year, calling you tonight

For Diego
Draft, in your voice

happy bday man ❤️🎉 rematch at the court this weekend, no excuses

Same day. Two people. Two voices.

How it works

Set it up once. Then forget about it.

No dashboard to babysit. Bring your people in once and I take it from there, right in your chats.

Step 1

Bring your people in

Pull the birthdays already on your iPhone or Android, paste a list from Notes, or type someone like “Mom, March 5”. On Pro, link your account and I find them in your chats.

Step 2

Tell me the little things

Sarah got a puppy, Dad is training for a marathon. Mention it once and I keep it with them, next to the date and their time zone.

Step 3

You tap, I draft

The day before a birthday or an anniversary, I give you a heads up, with gift ideas one tap away on birthdays. On the day I ask again, at midnight once you have told me your city. Hit Draft it and the text comes back with one little thing in it, ready to send.

Right in your chats

Review everyone on one screen.

Tidy your whole list right inside the chat. Check who to keep, tag them, fix a date, all without leaving the chat. Their photo on the card when I have one, a tinted monogram when I do not.

  • Check the people to keep, skip the rest
  • Tag each person Family, Friends, or Work
  • Set reminder timing and the tone you like
  • Fix a name or a date in a tap

It opens as a form right inside the conversation, so the whole review happens on one screen.

The road ahead

From birthdays to a real companion.

Birthdays are step one. Three pieces are live today, the rest is on its way.

Live today · Pro

Live voice learning

Link your device and I keep learning your style on my own. Pro, fully opt in, and you can pause or unlink it anytime.

Live today

Gift ideas

Three picks from what they love, each with a link to buy. One tap on the heads up the day before, or ask me anytime.

Live today

Look anyone up

Ask about someone and I search for a birthday, a job, anything worth knowing. Pro gives you 30 lookups a month, for web searches, public profiles and reading a birthday off a screenshot.

On the roadmap

Gentle check ins

A quiet nudge when you have not spoken to someone in a while.

Pricing

Start free. Go Pro for less than a coffee.

Keep a few birthdays in check on me, or unlock everyone you love for $2.50 a month, billed yearly.

Free

$0

For keeping a few birthdays in check

  • Track up to 10 people with a date
  • Birthdays with time zones
  • Anniversaries too, on the same 10 slots
  • A heads up the day before
  • A message ready to send on the day
  • Gift ideas from what they love
Limited launch offer

Pro

$29.99/year

During our limited launch offer, Pro is $2.99 per month, or $29.99 per year, which is 50% off. After launch, Pro will cost new subscribers $5.99 per month, or $59.99 per year.

Your launch price stays as long as you do.

First month free

That is $2.50 a month, cancel anytime. Prefer monthly? Start Pro monthly, $2.99 a month ($5.99 after launch)

For the friend who shows up for everyone

  • Everything in Free
  • Track everyone, not just 10 people with a date
  • Messages that sound like you, learned from how you text each person
  • Send a voice note instead of typing, I take it from there
  • A sharper writer, better at using what I actually know about them
  • Live voice learning via device link (opt in, encrypted, revoke anytime)
  • Birthdays that sync by themselves
  • 30 lookups a month, for web searches, public profiles and reading a birthday off a screenshot
Start my free month

Cancel anytime, I send the link.

Free to try. Cancel anytime, I send a link.

Your contacts, your call

Built to be the opposite of creepy.

I keep the bare minimum to do one job well, and you stay in control of all of it.

Only what you import

Just the contacts you choose to add. Nothing else comes along for the ride.

Voice learning is opt in

By default I only see what you send me. Turn on voice learning and I study how you write. Add the optional Pro device link and I also remember what the people you care about share with you, so drafts can mention real moments. Read the privacy policy for the full picture.

Leave whenever

Delete one person or everything with a single message, learned style and saved lines included. Your data leaves your account instantly and is held, unreachable, for 180 days in case you change your mind, then it is gone for good. Ask for immediate deletion instead if you would rather not wait.

Birthday Buddy is operated by SSS Tech LLC.  ·  Read the privacy policy

Good questions

The things people ask.

Mention it once. It shows up on the birthday.

Six short clips. Each one starts with a small detail someone told me once, and ends with the birthday text it turned into.

The little thingsPriya's corgi Biscuit, months later

Be the person who always remembers.

Set it up once, right in your chats. I'll take it from there.

Free to start · Pro is 1 month free · Cancel anytime